What is stress?

Stress is what happens when the pressures of life feel like more than you can handle. It might be several smaller demands piling up at once - deadlines at work, money worries, family responsibilities - or a single unexpected event that pushes you past your limit. Either way, when stress builds it can cloud your thinking, affect your sleep, and make it harder to take the very steps that would help you feel better.

When we're under pressure, the body activates its "fight, flight or freeze" response - an ancient survival mechanism that floods our system with adrenaline, raises our heart rate, and puts us on high alert. In short bursts, this can be useful. But when stress becomes chronic, it takes a real toll. Over time it increases the risk of fatigue, anxiety, low mood, heart problems and a weakened immune system - which is why managing stress isn't a luxury, it's essential.

This article is part of Ben's stress support hub. For an overview of the support available - including counselling, SilverCloud programmes, and the Stress MOT - visit our stress support page.


Quick reference: ways to manage stress

Tip

What It Does

How to Try It

Take Five and Breathe

Calms your nervous system, slows heart rate

Try deep belly breathing or guided meditation apps like Headspace or Calm

Stick to a Routine

Builds structure and stability

Maintain regular sleep, meal, and exercise times

Stay Connected

Reduces loneliness and increases support

Call a friend, join a group, or share a hobby

Spend Time in Nature

Boosts mood and reduces anxiety

Go for a walk, sit in the garden, or take lunch outdoors

Tune Out and Recharge

Gives your mind a rest

Watch a favourite show, read, or enjoy a hobby

Get Moving

Releases endorphins, boosts energy

Walk, run, cycle, or play a sport – anything that gets you active

Focus on the Little Things

Builds positivity and gratitude

Write down three good things each day

Be Kind to Yourself

Encourages self-care and resilience

Take time for rest, hobbies, and relaxation

Keep Your Mind Active

Improves focus and confidence

Try puzzles, reading, or learning a new skill

Acknowledge Your Feelings

Helps you manage emotions more clearly

Write worries down and focus on what’s in your control


Practical tips to help you reduce stress

1. Take five and breathe

When you feel overwhelmed, pause and take a few slow, deep breaths. Deep breathing activates your body’s natural relaxation response, reducing heart rate and muscle tension.

Try this:
Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four. Repeat a few times.

2. Stick to a routine

A healthy routine gives structure to your day and helps you feel grounded. Prioritise:

  • Regular meals and hydration
  • Sufficient sleep (7–9 hours for most adults)
  • Physical activity, even light stretching or walking

Consistency builds stability, especially when external circumstances feel unpredictable.

3. Keep connected

Strong social connections are a buffer against stress. Talk to someone you trust, whether face-to-face, by phone, or via video call. If you’re feeling isolated, joining a club or group activity (such as walking, volunteering, or an online class) can help you meet new people and lift your mood.

4. Spend time in nature

Nature has a proven calming effect. Even a short walk outside can:

  • Lower cortisol (the stress hormone)
  • Improve mood and focus
  • Boost vitamin D and immune function

Try this:
Step outside during your lunch break, or visit a local park at the weekend.

5. Tune out and recharge

Distraction can be healthy when it helps your brain rest. Lose yourself in something you love, a book, a podcast, music, or a creative hobby. It allows your mind to reset and can shift your perspective on what’s worrying you.

Read our guide to managing feeling overwhelmed, and how to manage this feeling.

6. Do something that makes you sweat

cycling

Exercise triggers the release of endorphins, your body’s natural mood boosters. You don’t need a gym membership: brisk walking, cycling, running, or playing five-a-side with friends all count.

Explore our physical health support.

7. Focus on the little things

Even during stressful times, moments of joy matter. Take a minute each day to notice small positives, a good coffee, a kind word, or a bit of sunshine. Writing down three things you’re grateful for can retrain your brain to focus on what’s going right.

8. Be kind to yourself

Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s essential. Allow yourself time to rest, say no when needed, and set boundaries. Taking care of your mental and physical health helps you show up as your best self for others, too. 

Learn more about self-care and wellbeing.

9. Keep your mind active

Engaging your brain can help reduce stress and improve confidence. Try:

  • Puzzles, crosswords, or word games
  • Drawing, writing, or creative crafts
  • Learning a new skill via YouTube or Udemy

Keeping your mind busy with positive challenges shifts attention away from stressors.

10. Acknowledge your emotions

It’s normal to feel frustrated, anxious, or sad at times. Instead of ignoring those feelings, name them and write down what’s worrying you. Then divide your list into two columns, what I can control and what I can’t. Focus your energy on the first column and let go of the rest.


Get free stress support from Ben

You’re not alone - and you don’t have to face stress by yourself. Call us on 08081 311 333 or chat with us online.

If money worries are adding to your stress, check out our cost of living tips to help reduce your monthly bills. Financial pressure is one of the most common causes of stress, and we’re here to help whenever you need support.

If your stress is driven by daily pressures, our guide to managing pressure may also help.

Final thought

Stress is part of life, but it doesn’t have to control you. With the right tools, a strong support network, and a little self-compassion, you can build resilience and face challenges with greater calm and confidence.

Sleep SilverCloud programme

If you would like more support with sleep, you can sign up free for our digital platform, SilverCloud. A number of programs are available, including on topics such as sleep, anxiety, depression, stress, money worries and resilience.

SilverCloud is completely free for anyone who works or has worked, in the automotive industry. Sign up free and get started today, using the access code: ben.